There are many good reasons to avoid being Facebook friends with women you want to date.

It almost always works against you.

I actively avoid it. If they try to be friends with me, I tell them I don’t use Facebook too much.

No doubt, when she’s really hot, you want to look at all her pictures.

But it’s worth resisting that temptation because there are so many downsides to tangling with Facebook.

Here’s why.

1. Facebook is a validation engine.

Facebook is built so that whenever you post pictures, your friends can “like” them and comment on them. That’s validation.

If you notice on Facebook, hot girls get a ton of validation. Read the rest of this entry »