She’s into me, I can tell. It’s sexual as hell and we’ve been connecting like crazy.

But something is off now.

It’s her body language.

Her arms are folded and she’s turned away. Her legs are crossed but in the opposite direction, away from me.

Whenever a girl does this, it’s imperative what you do next.

Call her out on it.

“Man, you have such closed body language,” I say to her as I mimic with my body exactly what she’s doing.

“Sorry!!!” she says. Immediately she turns and faces me 100%. Her knees are practically pointing toward me out from under the short skirt she’s wearing.

She stares into my eyes with puppy dog eyes.

If you let something like bad body language go on too long, she’ll convince herself emotionally that she’s not into you.

However, if you call it out, it’s a show of dominance and social perceptiveness.

For more on Calling it Out, check out When In Doubt, Call It Out.

I’m sitting in the park at a table with my client as he explains what is keeping him from approaching women.

He a works in a restaurant and doesn’t have a college degree.

This bothers him.

“Every time I go to approach a woman, I think about the fact that I don’t have a college degree and it stops me from approaching her.”

“The best guys I know,” I tell him, “do not have college degrees. In fact, they’re not what you would call typically book smart. They’re emotionally smart.”

“Does that make you feel better?” I ask him.

“Yeah, it does.”

“Well, guess what?” I inform him. “You’re still going to get approach anxiety.”

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