Comments on: Her Lips Are Sealed

By: sadfsdg

sadfsdg — Sun, 13 Jun 2010 05:38:10 +0000

jboy: Take that pussy off the pedestal. Simple as that. Stop overthinking.

By: jboy

jboy — Wed, 27 Jan 2010 06:17:09 +0000

True – I appreciate the low pressure…
maybe it’s the combination of “going with a friend” and “tagging along”
that invokes images in my head of being a third wheel…
But she texted you later so it must’ve worked:)

By: Eric Disco

Eric Disco — Wed, 27 Jan 2010 05:00:40 +0000

Personally, I would never agree to go if a girl I liked
asked me if I wanted to “tag along” with her and a friend.

I’m curious, what happened in the end with this girl?

She texted me two days later and asked me if I wanted to hang out.

Yes, your text is nicer. But nicer doesn’t always make her feel better about things.

Picture this. You meet a guy in your apartment building. Chat for a minute or so. And you guys end up exchanging phone numbers.

Later on, he texts you and asks if you want to hang out. Which text would make you feel more comfortable?

“Hi. It was really nice meeting you. I’m going to get a drink. Would you like to join me?”

“Hey man. About to grab a drink. Wanna join?”

The second would make you feel more comfortable because the main idea here is *low pressure* and not *does he respect me.*

He’s inviting you out for a drink. He respects you. Now you just need to make sure it’s low pressure and not needy. If he’s all needy, it turns you off.

It’s not exactly the same situation, but you get the idea.

Eric

By: jboy

jboy — Wed, 27 Jan 2010 04:37:30 +0000

Hey Eric, I’ve been reading your blog and really like your
point of view. I have a minor query on this one though.

I thought the texting was great until the
“going with a friend but you can tag along” –
I think most girls with high self esteem would
never agree to that kind of invitation. I know it
makes you lose less face if she rejects it, but seriously,
wouldn’t it have been better to straight out ask her
“I’m going to an art gallery opening, do you want to
come with”.

Personally, I would never agree to go if a girl I liked
asked me if I wanted to “tag along” with her and a friend.

I’m curious, what happened in the end with this girl?

By: Anxious M

Anxious M — Sun, 17 Jan 2010 18:52:03 +0000

Ah yes, I was a dick about calling that comment faked.

By: Eric Disco

Eric Disco — Sun, 17 Jan 2010 16:48:15 +0000

Nice job scammer. The comment from MG is obviouly faked,

Check yourself, man. If you click on MG’s name, it takes you to his blog.

as is this whole story. Clown.

Believe whatever you want. But next time you post here, I hope you say something positive. It seems like you have a lot to say about anxiety that could help people.

Eric

By: Anxious M

Anxious M — Sun, 17 Jan 2010 16:31:56 +0000

Nice job scammer. The comment from MG is obviouly faked, as is this whole story.

Clown.

By: Borrowed Game - We are men in 2010 - Hammer Time

Borrowed Game - We are men in 2010 - Hammer Time — Mon, 11 Jan 2010 04:52:26 +0000

[...] As a man playing the game, sometimes you just need to borrow other people’s shit. I’m not super into using routines, but there are definitely one liners and various things that I do with girls that are in the can, and in no part of my game is this more true than when I’m texting. I got this one from Eric Disco this week, although I’m sure he got it from somewhere else. Anyway, you can see how he used it in his post here. [...]