There Must Be Something Wrong With You

by Eric Disco
Oct 21

coffee2Deep down inside, there must be something inherently wrong with you.

You’re sure of it.

It has to do with how you experience life. The way you experience other people.

You know there’s more out there. You’ve tasted it.

For moments at a time, you experienced the joy of interacting with a woman you are madly attracted to.

She looked at you, for a moment. And for a moment you tasted it.

The Pickup Community promised you the world. Devious ways to win her heart.

You can change, they told you. They gave you the words. You adopted a new personality.

But weeks later you forgot the magic words and you’re back to square one.

And now you stand there and you look at how far you’ve come.

You look at where you’re at. And here, it seems, is not that much different than there.

You are still you. And all those beautiful women are still out of your reach.

What if you can’t change?

What if it is impossible to change?

What if everything they told you was a lie?

What if it was more of the same lie you were fed all your life instead of something new?

But what if, just what if…

You are perfect the way you are.

You already possess every single tool you will ever need inside of you.

You already know how to attract women far sexier than you ever imagined.

That knowledge is inside of you, locked in your body.

coffee3You can memorize as many lines, routines, and words as you want, but you will forget them.

Becoming great with women, as much as you’ve thought and thought and thought about it, was never something you could memorize.

It is something that you learn with your body.

Your fear feels like a brick wall. Your fear keeps you from walking up to that amazing woman you don’t know.

Your mind lies to you. It adeptly generates five million excuses as to why you shouldn’t talk to that girl.

And if you do talk to her, your mind shuts down. Your mind becomes a blank slate.

And then your mind calls you a loser. Says you can’t do it. And you never could.

But you can do it.

And you always could.

The ‘magic’ is in your bones, as old as time itself.

With my brand-new Charismatic Confidence mentoring program, I don’t give you a new personality or feed you complex things to say. Because that stuff wears off.

The kind of change that is lasting and permanent is the change you learn with your body.

It’s all about body language. People react emotionally to body language.

You could have the best thing in the world to say to a woman. But if you are running at her at a thousand miles an hour, ready to crash into her, guess what?

She’s going to run away.

Instead, you want to walk up to that amazing woman in a way that generates attraction instantly, before you even open your mouth.

Body language is the ultimate social skill and there is no way to learn it out of a book.

Social skills need to be learned in a social environment.

If you truly want to learn how to turn a woman on just by walking up to her then it’s time to sign up for my Charismatic Confidence mentoring program right now.

Slots are filling up fast.

Eric Disco


posted in Coaching Experiences

9 responses

Confidence is most important than all the other things. And that’s something which no one can teach you. Because confidence is not an external thing. It comes from within you alone.

Eric Disco says:

If you have fear and anxiety about doing something, a mentor can coach you past that fear.

If you’re thinking about starting a new business but don’t know how, you have zero confidence. But if you have a mentor who can guide you through, it helps your confidence, partially because he’s giving you skills and partially because you have someone there who can help you through the process.

Same thing with learning how to meet women. If you lack the confidence and skills to do what you want to do–approach women–a coach can help you overcome your fear and be more confident.

He’s not teaching you confidence, per se, but working with you so that you can gradually build up enough positive experiences that you become confident.


gsrposer says:

How do I post inside the Forum? I want to contribute to one of the topics that I feel strongly about.

Eric Disco says:

How do I post inside the Forum?

Thanks for letting me know. The login is fixed now. Go to the top of the forum and click register or just click here.


Kurt says:


I been in the community since 2004. My success rate has been the pits. I have done probably over 5,000 approaches (some will say that’s not enough – I say that is insane) and have yet to successfully be on a single date with a hot woman (say 8.5 or above). I have trained under some of the largest programs out there and I still have not found success. I have found most to be disappointing, overcharging and just poor teachers. I have spent a TON of money (over $10,000 easily) on bootcamps, materials, consultations and everyone out there says they have the magic formula – but it has not appeared to me at all.

As for me I dress well (George Clooney type of style), of a little above average looks, carry myself well, educated, can make woman laugh and keep their interest to some degree but at the end of the day I am not the one taking them home. What problems do I have? I am a bit on the short side so I have alot of woman who dismiss me due to my height (5’6), I am a bit older (in my early 40′s but look mid 30′s) so anyone say 25-35 dismisses me pretty quicky. Please do not tell me its pure inner game. I go out and do approaches all the time. I have confidence in myself and my accomplishments but women seem to like the good looking and bad boy types over a guy like me. I see it all the time and women will tell me to my face that I am not their type. These are not shit tests. I really believe what they are saying. Yes, I know the material and all but so far its been a brick wall. Like pulling teeth. I cant get a number from a 9 or 10 with the material I have been taught.

Bottom line is that this whole thing has been a roadwreck. I really like your material and read your blog weekly so I do value your opinion.

What can you do differently for me that others have yet to not do?


Eric Disco says:

Hey Kurt,

You asked:

What can you do differently for me that others have yet to not do?

I don’t claim to have the magic formula that no one else has. Yes, I have discovered many things about dealing with approach anxiety that no one else has. I’ve been influencing the community for a few years now with what I teach.

But what I really do best is working with guys to help bring out the very best in themselves. Teaching is one thing. It is a valuable aspect of game. There is much to learn from teachers. But coaching is something else. Coaching does involve teaching, but more so, it involves helping guys discover what is already working for them and building off of it. I suspect there are a lot more things working for you than you realize. It’s about bringing that out. A teacher just gives you the information while a coach sees you through to success.

There are many secrets to learn. And things can “appear” to you in moments of realization. But the most powerful change I have seen in other guys—and in myself—is in working with someone interactively, having that coach listen to you, understand where you are, and be able to know what will take you to the next level, usually because he himself has been through something similar.


Wim says:


I guess this is only available for people willing to travel to you? I myself live in Europe.


Axel says:

You have to live in New York or the Tri-State-area, I believe.

Eric Disco says:

I guess this is only available for people willing to travel to you? I myself live in Europe.

Hi Wim,

Thanks for the inquiry. Currently I am only offering the program as in-person. I will eventually be offering a phone-coaching program but it will be a bit different and is still under development. If you are interested in the phone coaching program, please contact me with a little bit more information about yourself and your situation and we can talk.