It’s great that you’ve figured out our tactics, but now what are you going to do, date spineless jellyfish? The truth is that guys who adore you for every word you utter are BORING, and the smartest girls know it. They want a man who will present a bit of a challenge, a man for whom they have to make a little effort. It’s been said that the most valuable women are looking for a man worthy of their surrender. A woman never wins by wrapping a man around her finger.

If you actually genuinely believe that women are without reason and accountability then why bother with women? You clearly do not even like women. You just want to walk around with a woman on your arm? You just want sex? Ok, now suddenly you have a ‘beautiful’ woman in front of you. What do you want from her? What do you want to give her? What can you offer her? How can she enjoy being with a man who thinks she is illogical? What would she get from that?

You are solely responsible for your experiences in life. If you have met women who are illogical then you attracted them to you. It is clear that you are not willing to even look beyond where/who you currently are to attract what you want. If you don’t even like women as people and are not open to even seeing that women are not ‘set characters based on genetics’ but actual people with varied characters then you should pay for a high-class hooker because you only want an object. I don’t mean that rudely but honestly. This way money is the currency – it’s easy and requires no effort. You don’t have to change and she doesn’t have to change. Personality is irrelevant. If you don’t want to be with a hooker then it means you’re looking for more than just ‘being with a beautiful woman’. You’re looking for acceptance, to be valued by something you value – really, a relationship (a way to relate). Even if it’s just sex, you want to relate. No human will want to relate to you if you do not truly value them beyond their physical appearance. Nothing is just about appearances.

I think continuing the conversation is futile at this point, Jake, if you are closed off to the world around you. I would question you when you say you are doing well spiritually as it does not appear that you have really ‘started’ on that course. I hope for your sake you experience something where you have no choice but to open up and change your perception of women. Friendships with varied women is the only thing I could even suggest at this point unless you actively remove yourself from your environment, travel, try a meditation retreat – you need to let yourself go because your experiences are limited and have thus created strong limited beliefs. Find female friends. Loads. Different types of women (I don’t mean hair colour but character). No sexual agenda (ignore their faces). Experience them. Make yourself do this. As long as you know women as people you will know that you don’t have to play games to go out with them. Women are no different from you. Good luck to you.

Your reality is ultimately going to include untruths, because your main criteria for finding a compatible woman is one who is superficially ‘hot’ to you, not one who will be your mental and emotional equal. Even your statement “My truth is to find one in my life that I like” is flawed according to me because it is absent of love. But if you really just want to be with someone hot who you ‘like’, I am not condemning you for it, that is your choice. For me, I want mutual love and respect, but I am aware that currently, I am not ready to be in a relationship that encompasses those things, though that is what I ultimately desire.

Here is round 2:

My truth is to be happy and have a full life. Academically, family wise, friend wise, professionally, spiritually, health (thank God) I am doing very well. The one piece missing is beautiful women in my life. My truth is to find one in my life that I like.

That is my truth for the moment.

Do you want to live a life where your untimate goal is to strive towards truth, because you believe truth is what will make you happier and more fulfilled than untruths?

From your subsequent reactions it is clear to me that you didnt answer this question because you don’t want to. Which is a rather ‘emotional’ way of dealing with it according to me.

In the end, its clear you and I just have different priorities in life. Whatever the difference, all the best to you.

Women think with emotions for the most part. Men with logic for the most part. Its the way we are wired. Political correctness has only been around for a few years. Our wiring has been around for thousands…with a name like “logic” I would think you would “feel” that…lol…