Comments on: How to Get HER Chasing YOU http://approachanxiety.com/2009/10/how-to-get-her-to-chase-you/ Turn Your Fear of Approaching Women into Confidence Fri, 10 Sep 2010 12:21:08 -0400 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.6 hourly 1 By: George http://approachanxiety.com/2009/10/how-to-get-her-to-chase-you/comment-page-1/#comment-36453 George Tue, 17 Aug 2010 09:24:11 +0000 http://approachanxiety.com/?p=495#comment-36453 About trying to impress women - there is a mathematical proof on why trying to impress women fails http://eCa.sh/Voce About trying to impress women – there is a mathematical proof on why trying to impress women fails http://eCa.sh/Voce

]]> By: Qualification | PUA Lingo http://approachanxiety.com/2009/10/how-to-get-her-to-chase-you/comment-page-1/#comment-35991 Qualification | PUA Lingo Fri, 09 Jul 2010 10:42:54 +0000 http://approachanxiety.com/?p=495#comment-35991 [...] How to get HER chasing YOU – A great post on qualifying by Eric Disco Grow Your Game: [...] [...] How to get HER chasing YOU – A great post on qualifying by Eric Disco Grow Your Game: [...]

]]> By: Eric http://approachanxiety.com/2009/10/how-to-get-her-to-chase-you/comment-page-1/#comment-34746 Eric Sun, 25 Apr 2010 20:18:31 +0000 http://approachanxiety.com/?p=495#comment-34746 <Blockquote>Where do u get the images? </Blockquote> Most of the images, if you click on them will take you to the website of the artist. Eric

Where do u get the images?

Most of the images, if you click on them will take you to the website of the artist.

Eric

]]> By: denzel http://approachanxiety.com/2009/10/how-to-get-her-to-chase-you/comment-page-1/#comment-34736 denzel Mon, 12 Apr 2010 11:19:14 +0000 http://approachanxiety.com/?p=495#comment-34736 Where do u get the images? Where do u get the images?

]]> By: Eric Disco http://approachanxiety.com/2009/10/how-to-get-her-to-chase-you/comment-page-1/#comment-34399 Eric Disco Wed, 18 Nov 2009 16:39:32 +0000 http://approachanxiety.com/?p=495#comment-34399 @Kevin, et al., Thanks for posting. I'm closing discussion here on this particular topic. If there are any comments or questions about the original article on qualification, feel free to post them here. Otherwise, <a href="http://approachanxiety.com/forum/" rel="nofollow">the Forum</a> is available for longer discussions about personal issues. Feel free to start a new topic there. Eric @Kevin, et al., Thanks for posting. I’m closing discussion here on this particular topic. If there are any comments or questions about the original article on qualification, feel free to post them here. Otherwise, the Forum is available for longer discussions about personal issues. Feel free to start a new topic there.

Eric

]]> By: Ryan http://approachanxiety.com/2009/10/how-to-get-her-to-chase-you/comment-page-1/#comment-34394 Ryan Wed, 18 Nov 2009 05:36:21 +0000 http://approachanxiety.com/?p=495#comment-34394 @Kevin There's a concept in sociology called the "looking glass self" (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Looking_glass_self). A professor once summed it up to me like this: "You are not what you think you are. YOU are what YOU think other people think YOU are." If you keep thinking that all these women see you as AFC when you walk up to them, then you're going to keep getting AFC reactions. I'm sad for you because while it seems you're legitimately trying to better yourself (unlike the keyboard jockeys BradP mentioned), it's not working out for you. I'll admit I'm not a PUA, but this stuff ought to work for you much more often than your stated success rate. Maybe you should find some wings in your area who aren't pros and go out with them and see what they say about your approaches. If you ARE trying hard, then there IS something wrong. And whatever is causing you to fail 124 out of 125 times shouldn't take a mPUA to figure it out. Or maybe you just need to quit this stuff for a while and start over, because something just isn't clicking for you. @Kevin

There’s a concept in sociology called the “looking glass self” (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Looking_glass_self). A professor once summed it up to me like this: “You are not what you think you are. YOU are what YOU think other people think YOU are.” If you keep thinking that all these women see you as AFC when you walk up to them, then you’re going to keep getting AFC reactions.

I’m sad for you because while it seems you’re legitimately trying to better yourself (unlike the keyboard jockeys BradP mentioned), it’s not working out for you. I’ll admit I’m not a PUA, but this stuff ought to work for you much more often than your stated success rate. Maybe you should find some wings in your area who aren’t pros and go out with them and see what they say about your approaches. If you ARE trying hard, then there IS something wrong. And whatever is causing you to fail 124 out of 125 times shouldn’t take a mPUA to figure it out.

Or maybe you just need to quit this stuff for a while and start over, because something just isn’t clicking for you.

]]> By: Kevin http://approachanxiety.com/2009/10/how-to-get-her-to-chase-you/comment-page-1/#comment-34393 Kevin Tue, 17 Nov 2009 22:07:44 +0000 http://approachanxiety.com/?p=495#comment-34393 How can an average do that beyond all these routines we are taught? I have tried hundreds of them and I am called stupid or laughed at and not in a friendly way. I can tease well, banter well but somehow I cannot get attraction. I get alot - "you are such a great guy, you will find someone great for you"...I even escalate like I should (kino). So I really wonder? So as an average guy, I have tried all this stuff and then I think - qualification? Its like trying to travel at the speed of light when I can only get to 40 miles per hour. I have read Sean Stephenson's stuff. His show was on Bio channel on Sunday night called "3ft. Giant." Great guy. I have the Man Transformation program (Lance Mason, Brad P,ect are on that too) and other Deangelo products with Sean. He has his demons and I have mine. How can an average do that beyond all these routines we are taught? I have tried hundreds of them and I am called stupid or laughed at and not in a friendly way. I can tease well, banter well but somehow I cannot get attraction. I get alot – “you are such a great guy, you will find someone great for you”…I even escalate like I should (kino). So I really wonder?

So as an average guy, I have tried all this stuff and then I think – qualification? Its like trying to travel at the speed of light when I can only get to 40 miles per hour.

I have read Sean Stephenson’s stuff. His show was on Bio channel on Sunday night called “3ft. Giant.” Great guy. I have the Man Transformation program (Lance Mason, Brad P,ect are on that too) and other Deangelo products with Sean. He has his demons and I have mine.

]]> By: The J http://approachanxiety.com/2009/10/how-to-get-her-to-chase-you/comment-page-1/#comment-34390 The J Tue, 17 Nov 2009 19:26:07 +0000 http://approachanxiety.com/?p=495#comment-34390 You're not an ass, you're just doing everything you can to prove to yourself that your limiting belief is right. "why would an attractive woman who could have any man she wants qualify herself to say an average man?" She wants a man that can make her feel emotions she want to feel. That's it. "Average" guys can do that. Google Sean Stephenson. Specifically look for a video of his appearance in David DeAngelo's Man Transformation. You’re not an ass, you’re just doing everything you can to prove to yourself that your limiting belief is right.

“why would an attractive woman who could have any man she wants qualify herself to say an average man?”

She wants a man that can make her feel emotions she want to feel. That’s it. “Average” guys can do that.

Google Sean Stephenson. Specifically look for a video of his appearance in David DeAngelo’s Man Transformation.

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