There was a while when I was getting better with women.

And I was hooking up a lot more than I ever had in my life.

But for some reason, the sex was getting worse–at least for me.

I was enjoying it less.  It felt more mechanical and less fun.

Part of it was that sex was becoming an end in itself.  I was too focused on getting it.

Okay, now that I can get it, what next?

I started to realize, sex is way more than sticking your member in someone’s hole.

Boring sex sucks.  Believe me.  I’d rather go home and masturbate.

And I don’t blame the girl, I blame me for that.  I’m the guy and it’s my job to make the sex fun and interesting.

So I made it my mission to figure out what would make sex hotter for her–and for me.

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You met a girl.  Got her number.  Went out on a date.  She likes you, but you got a little too clingy somehow.  Maybe you texted her too much.  Or pushed too hard for another meet up.  Or your emotions got the best of you and you were mushy and sentimental when you should have been playful and challenging.  Perhaps you got needy.  You turned into a wussy.  You let your insecurity get the best of you and communicated that to her in some way.

You can sense her getting distant.  She’s feeling a bit crowded.  She’s into you, but you can tell she’s pulling away.  She occasionally reciprocates your overtures and occasionally initiates half-hearted overtures herself.  But when it comes down to it–spending time together or hooking up– she has an attitude that says hands off. You’re just not a priority to me. You’re just no good enough.

And  you’re left feeling like an emotional basket-case.  All your “game” is suddenly out the window.  You were once cool, playful and a challenge.  Now you’re hurting, confused, conflicted, and not sure what to do.

And you realize that if you don’t change course, if you don’t fix the situation, it will spiral down and eventually end things.

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It can be daunting to think about everything you don’t have in your life.

You’re not a rock star.

You’re not rich.

Maybe you weren’t born with good looks.

Sucks to be you.

There are probably lots of things in your life that you feel would give you more of an advantage with women.

You could go so far as to list all the things you have going for you and against you.

Whether you are:

• Rich
• Handsome
• Have a big penis
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