Comments on: When You Feel You Don’t Have Enough to Offer

By: JP

JP — Tue, 29 Sep 2009 16:37:11 +0000

Naturals who do not fear hot women thinks this way; wow she’s hot, she needs to have fun with me because I’m a guy. Whether he can get her or not is different matter, but at least those guys do not think so highly of those girls except that they need a man as other not so hot girls. Because I want to get hot chicks and I want to adopt that mentality as well. It is the only way. Great boxers never think of losing their next big fight. Never think negative. She blows off .. move on. One of my natural friends once told me, “Gentlemen don’t remember things that happened with women”. I still have A.A when I go up to hot chicks, but as I replay that mind set over and over in my head and I do more approaches, I feel better I find.

By: Tony

Tony — Sat, 01 Aug 2009 05:59:40 +0000

Yes this is insightful but I do agree that many of these women like having their “asses kissed.” Eric if you can prove me wrong, then great but I have seen alot of really hot women really enjoy the attention that comes from men hanging around them and playing up their egos. Just try and pickup a really hot chick in a club and most of the time its either the pretty boy, the jerk or the high status dude (money) that gets them.

By: Rham

Rham — Wed, 29 Jul 2009 00:19:57 +0000

Great article Eric but I have a different perspective. I have hung out with “the pretty crowd” and they do think differently. Very hot women do have guys challenge them. I have seen it time and time again. They also have guys kissing their asses but they get so addicted to it that they except it.

There is a great movie called “Fall” with Eric Schaefer about a taxi cab driver that has an affair with a top model. Yes he fills her emotional cravings but she goes back to her husband (she is separated from him) because she needs that life again. Having lived in NYC, London and now back in the US these women get used to it and if you dont have that boat or toy for the weekend, no amount of emotional stimulation is going to replace it.

So do we really have any thing to offer them? Perhaps there are your exceptions but from 40 years on this planet and having known quite a few of them….it does not happen that often….

By: Conrad Dixon

Conrad Dixon — Sun, 19 Jul 2009 06:33:49 +0000

Wow… great article. It is SOOOOO true. Once you learn to provide women with the Emotion Stimulating conversation that they’re CRAVING for… you find that it replaces the need for:

– good looks
– money
– great career
– social status
– lots of friends
– etc

By: A

Wed, 15 Jul 2009 15:51:45 +0000

OK, I asked a Slovak model whose friend I was getting physical with how many guys approached her in the disco in a night. She was surely stunning. She said usually only 1, except when in Italy when it was 5! So even the hotties may be desiring more attention from prospective princes.

By: Social

Social — Tue, 14 Jul 2009 18:24:33 +0000

this is great, usually with HB10′s i have a very hard time not looking thru the attraction lens. one of my tricks is to imagine if she was to look like a guy, what kinda of guy would she look like?

makes a perfect neg too.

By: The G Manifesto

The G Manifesto — Mon, 13 Jul 2009 18:20:45 +0000

“Men are constantly kissing their asses.”

Excellent point.

And guys with Game can use this to their advantage.

- MPM

By: H3x

H3x — Mon, 13 Jul 2009 14:54:53 +0000

Great post Eric.

I just wanted to add that guys need to be ready for a shocker when they finally start learning how to approach and interact with beautiful women: many of them are BORING and don’t have much to offer. I’m not saying this to be negative, but to let you know that while you’re sitting there wondering if you’re good enough for her, often you’ll find out that the hot girl you’ve been drooling over is a complete waste of your time. No matter how uninteresting or worthless you think you are, do not discredit the value you can bring to someone else’s life or think you aren’t good enough for anything. I learned that the hard way.