“Anyone that’s great with women knows how to have a good time,” says Cory Skyy.

Cory knows a thing or two about women.

He’s heralded by top guys as one of the best guys in the world at getting women.

But what could one of the of the best guys in the world have to say about having a good time?

“Why lie to create a crazy story to tell women?  Have a life instead,” he says.

Download this free podcast and find out how having a good time can help you completely turn things around with women–and it has nothing to do with going out to bars.

Women love guys that are adventurous and spontaneous.  But how do you do it?

We also delve into dating.  We talk about what he does on a date, what to do if the energy drops, and how to know when to end the date.

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I recently sat down with a gorgeous girl friend of mine and talked about her experiences with men and getting physical.  Whatever you thought about sexual escalation and women, think again…

You recently went on a date. What happened?

I met this guy at a party and he asked me for my number.  He texted me and followed up and asked me to meet him for a drink, which I did.  We met at this artsy bar in Manhattan.

I could tell he was confident with women and dating.  He was more forward than most guys, but not in a creepy way.  Within the first half hour of the date he had his hand on my knee and touched my hair, all in conversation.  Most guys don’t make those moves.

It was actually flattering.  It was like ‘Huh, this guy likes me.’

It’s cool when a guy is forward like that and connected with really great conversation, which we had.  I feel like we were able to get into some cool subjects and talk about things that were important to us.  We were just talking and that was cool but also with the touching it wasn’t like we were just talking.

Did the touching put pressure on you?

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I quit.

It’s over.

I’m done.

I will never approach again.

Strange words to read on a site called ApproachAnxiety.com.

But it’s true.

It is an approach I no longer subscribe to.

It used to make me feel like I was doing something.

I would gather all the courage in the world and walk up to her.

I won’t anymore. There is a better way.

I don’t approach anymore. Read the rest of this entry »

One of the most challenging aspects of connecting with a woman is making yourself vulnerable to her. It is one of the things we focus on.

In workshops, we teach guys how to walk up to a woman, how to stand when talking to her and a myriad of other body language skills. This stuff is important.

In Chicago we had a guy who’s game was radically changed just by figuring out that he needed to point his toes in a different direction. Sound unbelievable?

It all comes back to vulnerability. It may seem counterintuitive, but making yourself vulnerable is one of the hallmarks of a high-status male. Read the rest of this entry »