Never Lie to the Women You’re Dating

March 30th, 2009 by Eric Disco

This post is by Lee, a close friend and fellow coach.

A friend of mine recently met three different women and set up dates with all of them in one weekend.

By Sunday night, he said, he felt like a total creep.

He felt he was lying both to himself and the women.

He did not tell the women that he dated other women.

And so he figured this “lifestyle” is not for him.

How do you act with integrity and still keep your options open?

First, never lie to women. That is one of the most important lessons.

Women can smell lies from a million miles away.

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Stay Grounded – Podcast with Brian Begin

March 25th, 2009 by Eric Disco

You’re there in front of a beautiful woman.

Most guys falter.  But you stay grounded.

How do you keep being you, even when you feel you’re being swept off your feet?

How do you stay present in conversation instead of thinking ahead and worrying about what to say next?

Learn how to be grounded in this great podcast with the expert, Brian Begin of InnerConfidence.

Brian teaches guys how to “lean into their sharp points.” He teaches guys how to manage the tension by being more present.

Why are some guys able to actually play with the tension instead of backing down? Brian shows you how.

And if you’re stuck at zero, Brian delivers some amazing tips on how to get comfortable with that first approach.

Don’t miss this.

Sweep Her Off Her Feet – Download Free MP3 Podcast (36 min, 37 MB)


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Could a Drug Take Away Approach Anxiety?

March 14th, 2009 by Eric Disco

A commenter in the last post linked an article about a drug called Propranolol:

Propranolol Permanently Reduces Human Fear Response.

Is it possible a drug could take away approach anxiety?

Propranolol has been around for quite some time.  It is in a classification of drugs known as “beta blockers.”

Primarily it is used to treat high blood-pressure and works by blocking adrenaline release.

For years, musicians who perform under high-stress situations would sometimes get prescribed the drug, although it is not technically legal in the US for this purpose.

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Believe the Unbelievable

March 8th, 2009 by Eric Disco

I’m not where I want to be.  All of this is killing me.

I’ve been doing way too much.  Working too much.  Running around.  And I’m not enjoying it.

I have almost no free time to myself.  I’m running myself ragged.

I don’t like where I’m at and how it feels.

I’m jumpy all the time, and rushing from thing to thing.  I’m getting overwhelmed.

I feel like I don’t have time for anything in my life.  All I want is a little free time.

So I’ve started a new affirmation.

My life is leisurely and relaxed.

How can this affirmation help me here?  Isn’t that just wishful thinking?

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