The date was amazing.

Oh. My. God.

I can’t believe how much chemistry was there. I can’t believe how much we connected. I can’t believe how HOT it was!

And you start to think about her.

And think about her.

And think about her.

It’s nice to think about her. But there comes a point where you’ve thought about her too much. You can feel it.

There’s a difference between feeling good about it, and feeling pain, insecurity, neediness, or possibly even hints of depression. Read the rest of this entry »

This post is by By Dr. Matthew Anderson

Let’s look at how too much niceness can make you fat.

Nice is like grease. A little grease in a car makes it run smoothly.

A little grease in the pan keeps the food from sticking.

Imagine what would occur if you poured a gallon of grease all over the engine of your car.

Or if you tried to sauté your vegetables with a pound instead of an ounce.

The car would smoke and burn and your food would make you sick. This is what happens with too much nice.

Too much nice makes you phony. Read the rest of this entry »

“Give her the gift of missing you” – David DeAngelo

It used to happen to me all the time. I would hook up with a girl and all of a sudden it was like we were boyfriendgirlfriend. All of a sudden it was a relationship.

With girls that I was ambivalent about, they would be pretty happy that we were in a relationship. And I would start to feel crowded pretty darn quick.

With women who I was more excited about, I would go off the deep end. Way too much too soon. And they would run screaming.

I thought that’s what women wanted. Women want relationships, don’t they?

As it turns out, women actually like to take things slow. Even if you do get physical early on, it’s better to keep it chilly at the beginning. I would use the word ‘casual.’

A brilliant and gorgeous friend of mine recently explained it to me from a woman’s point of view. Read the rest of this entry »

This is the third installment with the bad boy of seduction, Cory Skyy.

Cory talks about where guys usually go wrong with women.

And more importantly, what you can do right.

• How changing astoundingly small things can make a huge difference
• Why memorizing routines and scripts can make you unnattractive and what to do instead
• One magic word that literally forces the other person to continue talking
• Why attractive women are so snappy and bitchy and what to do abut it
• How to have a great conversation with as little work as possible
• Why being in the moment makes you so attractive
• How and why to approach, compliment, and walk away from a very attractive woman
• Ways to meet women in groups without a wing man
• Instead of getting her phone number, how to get her to take yours

Stop Going Wrong – Download Free MP3 Podcast (39 min, 37 MB)

Focus.

I’ve always had focus.

I’m an ambitious guy, whether it’s recording an album, writing a book, or bettering different aspects of my life.

My dogged persistence is what has always seen me through.

I’ve noticed though, that this focus, when applied to becoming more social, has been problematic.

It often backfires.

I recently read an amazing book that shed some light on this.

In Look Me In The Eye, John Elder Robison chronicles his lifelong struggle with Asperger’s syndrome.

Read the rest of this entry »

Up in the snowy mountains of Tahoe, a conversation happened that would forever change pickup.

Do not listen to this audio unless you want to change your life forever.

You will also hear words like booby and balls.

In this daring interview we discuss the best way to deflect mean girls and the foolproof way to handle a boatload of attutide.

We deliver the very best opener–ever, an opener you can use when you start out meeting women.

We talk about why the simplest things are often the best.

And a very very secret rapport technique, that is so deep, it isn’t really even a technique. It could hold the key to what is genuine in all of us.

Listen at your own risk.

The Secret Conversation - Download Free MP3 Podcast (38 min, 35 MB)