In this fantastic interview with Stephen Nash, a.k.a. Playboy L.A. from The Game, we discuss an approach to meeting women that few people are talking about.

We talk about how to tackle approach anxiety and use your skills to build a social circle social that incorporates women naturally into your life.

• A better way to meet women than approaching strangers
• How to develop a lifestyle that naturally puts you in front of women.
• Why women act differently in clubs and bars than they normally act
• How to take advantage of social circles to meet the best women
• Where to go to meet women (hint: it’s not bars and clubs)
• How to develop your social circle
• Use someone’s script or going unscripted? How about a third, better way!
• What will get you introduced to women, by women
• The way to find the coolest, most interesting events and parties in your town

How to Get a Girlfriend - Download Free MP3 Podcast (55 min, 52 MB)

I’m thinking about quitting my job and becoming a vagabond.

I’ve been reading a pretty good book called The 4-Hour Workweek, by Timothy Ferris. He talks about some great concepts, one of which I’ve been thinking about for the last ten years.

I have a “day job” where I do computer network engineering for a publishing company. I’ve been in this position for the last eight years. The same exact position.

A year or two after I got hired there I started interviewing at other companies, mostly in order to get more money and move up the food chain. I got offered a job making A LOT more money.

But they also said I would be working up to 50 hours per week. Continue Reading »

I’m out with her. We’re in the bar having drinks. Joking. Connecting. Touching.

During the interaction I position myself to show interest and disinterest in our conversation.

When she presents something interesting, I turn toward her and face her more. My hips are positioned toward her, my eyes lock eyes with hers and my shoulders are turned more toward her.

When I’m just having fun and busting on her, I face away from her. I’m right next to her, both of us looking out toward the bar.

When I’m just chilling out and facing away from her, I noticed that there are two ways I could do it. Continue Reading »

We’ve just met. We’re toward the end of our first drink, sitting in this bar.

I’ve been bantering with her a little. Connecting with her a little. A little bit of kino on the arm.

Then I drop all conversation. I could continue to banter or connect, but I don’t. Instead I just sit there and look her in the eye.

I don’t care if it makes her uncomfortable or makes her feel like she has to say something. I’m not smiling. The tension begins to build.

“Let’s get out of here,” I say as I grab her hand and stand up.

“I’m not finished with my drink,” she says.

“I don’t care,” I respond.

We walk out the door of the bar down a long empty hallway that leads to the street. Before we get to the door that leads to the street I grab her hand and push her up against the wall. Continue Reading »

Oh Jesus. This reminds me I need to hit the gym. A friend sends this great article about working out that relates in a hundred ways to getting out there and meeting women: Merry Christmas, Bob – By Chris Shugart.

You want to know what it is we do? We overcome. We’re too busy to train, too, but we overcome.

We’re too busy to prepare healthy meals and eat them five or six times a day, but we overcome.

We can’t always afford supplements, our genetics aren’t perfect, and we don’t always feel like going to the gym.

Some of us used to be just like you, Bob, but guess what? We’ve overcome.

This is your chance, your big opportunity to break out of that rut. If you don’t show up, Bob, you’ve learned a very important lesson about yourself, haven’t you? You won’t like that lesson.

You won’t like that feeling in the pit of your stomach either or that taste in your mouth. It will taste worse than defeat, Bob.

Defeat tastes pretty goddamned nasty, but what you’ll be experiencing will be much worse. It will be the knowledge that you’re weak, mentally and physically.

What’s worse is that you’ll have accepted that feeling. The feeling will always be with you.

In the happiest moments of your life, it’ll be there, lying under the surface like a malignant tumor. Ignore it at your own peril, Bob.

I think Bob is just stuck in a rut, and as the saying goes, the only difference between a rut and a grave is depth.

The way out of the rut is to make major changes in your life, most of which won’t be too pleasant in the beginning.

Honesty is the best policy it’s been said.

But if honesty is the best policy, it would seem there is a right time to be brutally honest and a right time to just keep your mouth shut.

The word for it is couth.

“I’ve slept with more than five hundred women and about a half dozen men,” says sixty-six-year-old psychotherapist Brad Blanton in the July 2007 Escquire magazine article I Think You’re Fat.

“I’ve had a whole bunch of threesomes one of which involved a hermaphrodite prostitute equipped with dual organs.”

What about animals?

“I let my dog lick my dick once.”

No topic is off-limits in this movement called Radical Honesty. Continue Reading »

This is the second interview with “one of the best naturals ever,” Cory Skyy (BadBoyWithAHeart.com). And it’s one of our best podcasts yet.

In this podcast we go into specific detail and give away tons of valuble techniques for being the bad boy. We also discuss interactions with women over the weekend and analyze them. Do not miss this podcast!

• Why Cory likes it when a girl calls him an a**hole
• How and why to tease a girl relentlessly
• What to tease her about
• The best way to stand when you’re with her
• How and when to connect with her
• How talking less can get her to talk more
• The best way to walk around a bar
• Eye contact basics and mindset
• When to walk away from a girl and show physical disinterest
• How and why to approach a girl indirectly
• Cory’s powerful method for approaching her sincerely
• A deadly technique to escalate the sexual tension–without saying a word

Be the Bad Boy - Download Free MP3 Podcast (38 min, 35 MB)