Comments on: Are You Experienced?

By: Dan (Socialhitchhiker)

Dan (Socialhitchhiker) — Fri, 27 Jul 2007 00:16:55 +0000

Oh i’ve been there, flowers at work, going out of my way to be available, trying oh so hard to impress. Now I save that for anniversaries.

My best date ever, being a goof shopping at costco.

Nice article. Listen up boys, she knows what she is talking about!

Dan

By: PATRICK CAULFIELD

PATRICK CAULFIELD — Tue, 24 Jul 2007 13:12:07 +0000

cool can you give us that blog site!!! when you put it up!!!! email us or post it here !!!! thanks a million Alexandra!!!!

By: Alexandra

Alexandra — Tue, 24 Jul 2007 07:31:06 +0000

Thanks everyone for your comments!

David, you bring up an excellent point!

We are still friends and talk once every few months. There were no hard feelings in the end. We were both very young when this happened, which was shortly after high school.

Definitely we discussed everything and he knew he had things to work on. I had things to work on too.. like growing up. I was hardly experienced at the time. I have had several other situations that were similar throughout the years but I knew how to handle them in the proper way.

Make no mistake. I really liked him. We were equal nerdiness. But the article was really to make a point about going overboard with gifts and how in the end, it won’t get you the girl.. just because of the gifts.

I am putting together my own blog which will have many more insightful articles.

By: David

David — Sat, 21 Jul 2007 22:06:24 +0000

So did you say, ‘you know what mate – I’m just not feeling it’ or some shit like that, or did you actually take a moment to realise that he’s just another human like you and that you could just communicate with him and put and end to all this excessive pointless shit. You could of explained to him your thoughts, and allowed him a chance to improve, or maybe he wasn’t worth your time for such. How did you end it?

By: Jose

Jose — Wed, 18 Jul 2007 02:05:49 +0000

A refreshing post. :) I have sponge bob boxers and I know how much women love them! It shows that I’m a fun-loving guy and I don’t take myself to seriously. Whenever I show them off, they instantly make girls smile.

Love the article. Please write more. Also liked your he said she said. You should do an update he said she said. That would be interesting to read.

-Jose

By: Nick

Nick — Tue, 17 Jul 2007 05:14:10 +0000

I was cringing when reading the beginning ($600 dinners), but your post really thought me something . Thanks.

By: David

David — Mon, 16 Jul 2007 22:07:59 +0000

Thanks Alexandra for the great post! I can relate to exactly what you talk about. The girl I dated the longest who I liked the most, I met while getting the mail one morning. Our first date cost nothing. We sat in the grass, ate otter pops, and built deep rapport. I used to think that building attraction was all about buying her tons of stuff and spoiling her. Now I realize that if she likes you, she will like you no matter how much you spend on her. I still do always show my appreciation for the girl I’m dating by giving her very small token gifts. Nothing over $10. I used to spend hundreds.

Thanks again for the post! You should write posts more often. A females perspective is invaluable!

By: Daygamer

Daygamer — Mon, 16 Jul 2007 13:54:56 +0000

Great post! Sorry you had to go thru with the expensive dinners and gifts…YUCK!! lol
I should wear my spongebob boxer in public more often. :-)