Want to have killer direct game? Check out this interview with Rob Overman from Charisma Arts.

“There are three successful things to any opening, it has nothing to do with any technique. Two are on me and one is on the girl.”

We talk about how to open so that she isn’t put on the spot to decide whether she likes you or not.

Why is it so important to show your interest? How do you do it so she still wants you? Guys are afraid to demonstrate interest, mostly because it’s so easy to do it wrong.

And of course, we talk about approach anxiety. Rob has it. He talks about how to deal with it and how he helps his students get past it.

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I see it all the time. In beginners. In advanced guys. The most important factor affecting attraction.

I’ve been playing around a lot with it. And it’s huge.

When I began doing this stuff, it was difficult for me to detect whether I had attraction from a woman. I was nervous, unattuned and just pretty much oblivious to reading her body.

But now I can usually tell.

I’ve been going out day after day, doing this same experiment over and over again.

I see an attractive woman on the street. I approach her.

In a cool relaxed manner, with a voice tone implying she’s my friend, I say “Hey!”

“How are you doing?” Continue Reading »

I have nothing.

My mind is a blank slate.

I sit there on the phone with her and can’t think of a single good thing to say.

I spent the entire weekend talking to attractive women. I have dates lined up with attractive women this week. I’ve been teaching a weekend workshop, for Chrissakes, on how to talk to women!

But I have nothing to say to her. All I can think of is to ask her about herself.

I glance back over my weekend and even further back over my week looking for something interesting to share.

Nothing. It seems like I haven’t done anything interesting. Ever.

“G2G” she says to me. Continue Reading »

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I’ve met and worked with a lot of excellent guys in this industry. I thought I’d seen it all. But Cory is something completely different.

Cory Skyy (badboywithaheart.com) is a diamond in the rough, a true natural. He’s never read an e-book or any outside information on seduction. And that makes him all the more powerful.

Cory can walk into a room and light a fire with any woman he chooses–without even saying a word. He can tell you exactly what’s going on in any situation with a girl and exactly how it should be played.

In this podcast we discuss how being a nice guy can get you into trouble and what to do about it. He also reveals one of his most powerful techniques for meeting women in bars. He will alter your reality of what’s possible.

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It’s all relative.

Banter–playful flirting–is one of the most powerful tools you have to generate attraction from women.

It shows that you view her as your friend, so much so that you can bust on her and have fun with her in a playful way.

A great aspect of banter though, is that you can generate attraction and show your excellent personality not just by bantering with her, but by bantering near her.

I’m out to lunch with an old friend. He has the brilliant idea to set me up with his co-worker. Uh… okay… I’m never one to pass up an opportunity. So we meet up. Just three of us. Continue Reading »

Today we have a guest post from Pickup 101 coach Alexandra!

Several years back, I ran into an old high school friend.

He asked me out on a date.

The first date happened to be the week of my birthday. After dinner he invited me back to his apartment.

To my surprise he had 9 dozen roses, 3 huge boxes of Godiva chocolates, sterling silver chop sticks with a little elephant chopstick holder, a chocolate bar of soap, some kind of board game that was called, ’strip chocolate’ and a stuffed bear the size of Texas!

No joke.. this thing must have cost at least $300 for the bear alone.

I guess he wanted to catch my attention. Continue Reading »

When I first started learning how to talk to women I didn’t know, I lost touch with some of my female friends. I didn’t quite know how to include them in what I was learning.

As I’ve gotten better at this stuff, I’ve begun to appreciate women on many different levels and have started to re-integrate them in my life in other ways than just romantically.

Being friends with women is important. Having women as friends is important. Friends in general are important. But there are many benefits to being friends with women.

Being friends with women allows you to see them as human beings. What does this mean? Does this mean you turn into a wussy and just be super nice to every girl you meet? Actually the opposite.

You see that they’re dealing with their own problems and insecurities. They worry about guys not calling them back. They have their own set of issues to deal with. Instead of putting women up on a pedestal, it allows you to see them as having their own struggles. Continue Reading »

In some way or another, you’ve known it all along.

You were born perfect. As a child you were you. You didn’t care what anybody thought about you. You had all the love you needed.

When you wanted to cry, you cried. When you wanted to laugh, you laugh. As a baby you did what you wanted to do without respect for anyone else.

As you got older, you were still you. When you took your first steps, you turned into a little monster. You were you. When the music came on you danced and didn’t care what anybody thought.

And now, as you’re older, how much time do you spend locked up inside yourself? Continue Reading »

We have a very special podcast today. This is an interview I did with the fantastic guys from a great site called PickupPodcast.com.

Both beginners and experts will pick up some great stuff from this interview. We delve deeply into how to handle rejection, embarrassment, and creeping out girls. We talk about direct/sincere approaches and indirect/flirtatious approaches.

Why is daygame so great? Why are women so attracted to guys that can approach them during the day? We go into some fantastic straightforward daytime approaches and why they work.

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