Comments on: Don’t Creep Girls Out In Social Circles

By: Michael S.

Michael S. — Fri, 16 Dec 2011 20:45:02 +0000

But waiting to long to make a move is what’s gotten me into this mess in the first place. Hell the last girl I waited too long on has just been proposed to by another guy.

baahh…relationships.

By: Platypus

Platypus — Fri, 14 Mar 2008 19:30:51 +0000

Wow this guy has it wrong.
The number one problem women have at a bar, party or pretty much any social situation is what many of them call, “Creapers.” These are guys who pretty much do esactly what the guy above said, and make women uncomfertable. As soon as she labels you as a creaper, you are done. Sometimes it is hard to avoid this label (it’s part of the game) but if you dress clean, relax and DON’T GET TOO DRUNK you’ll be able to at least hang out with a women.

The trick is to act like a nice guy but be assertive, confidence is the number one turn on of any woman. Don’t fumble in convo, stare at her tits too much, NEVER appologize (unless confidently to another man) or back out of a decision, these are all signs of uncertanty. She needs to think that you don’t need her, there is a reason when you have a girlfriend so many women seem to want you, because you arn’t talking with a desperate penis.
Also try to avoid making moves with her friends within earshot, she might worry too much about what they think.

My last piece of advice… Don’t be a fool Wrap Your Tool. A “dirty” reputation will ensure you never recieve a reccomendation.

By: LuciferMorningstar

LuciferMorningstar — Fri, 06 Jul 2007 13:15:26 +0000

Well, using an “AFC” approach here is fine. If u behave well, u get social proof. So i guess its ok.

By: Raccoon

Raccoon — Tue, 03 Jul 2007 00:06:03 +0000

Interesting take on it.

I always thought carefulness in my social circles was a weakness of mine, rather than a necessity. I mean, I noticed how I’m so careless and having fun on dates, doing whatever freaky stuff I want — she either digs it, or we’re not seeing each other again anyway. With the social circles, though, it feels like they’re all camcorders pointed at your, recording every stupid thing you do, to be remembered for posterity.

Of course I told myself it’s a limiting belief etc. but alas that won’t help :/

By: JD

JD — Wed, 27 Jun 2007 22:30:03 +0000

this is a real dilemma…of course you shouldn’t be creeping girls in your social circle out but you still gotta make progress somehow. i find getting a number and calling her later(conventional AFC approach) works better than what is recommended in puadom, ie, make plans first and then get her number. of course you need to calibrate and if she’s giving you a lot of IOI’s, go ahead and escalate .

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