It’s binary. Either/Or. There are one of two situations.

1. When I do approach women, I improve.
2. When I don’t approach women, I don’t improve.

Regardless of the outcome. Maybe I’ll get rejected, embarrassed, or creep the girl out. Or maybe I’ll take her home and have mind-blowing sex. I’m still learning. My body is getting used to talking to hot women. I am improving. One approach at a time. Every day.

I’ve been doing pickup for a year and a half and I STILL find it difficult to approach one woman a day. Why?

In the beginning it took A LOT of emotional energy to get myself to go out and approach a girl. Read the rest of this entry »