In my opinion, there’s never a reason to ask a woman if she is single. She may be in a relationship but unhappy, in which case forcing her to tell you the truth may work against you. The best way to proceed is to escalate until a woman stops you. If she is happy in her relationship, she’ll stop you from getting closer. There’s another reason not to ask: it signals that you’re looking for something meaningful and emotional, which shows way too much interest for the beginning of a relationship. At the beginning, the best way is to keep things light, flirty, and sexy. Talking about commitment – whether its your commitment to her or her commitment to someone else – is a bad idea.

–Lee

It’s a supply and demand thing, too. There are a limited number of beautiful women in the world, a precious commodity.

There’s a LOT of demand and competition.

It is not a pleasant fact.”

There’s always enough. Not everybody wants the same person, and the population is growing. I basically have an entire city to myself because most people (well.. me too sometimes) don’t even approach. Except I tend to get approached a lot, so that’s always fun.

Your kind of thinking is like a virus that lives inside of society. You need to have an abundance mindset. My city is small, my school is small, and I live in Canada. It would still take me forever to approach every girl I wanted! Population of like 180, 000 and I’d probably like about 2000… Probably more because I hit on girls well outside my age range.

These tips are great, I’m going to start incorporating them. I especially like the last few, I don’t usually go out with friends, and I always walk pretty slow and breath from my diaphragm.

“Hot girls don’t care about anything except $$$$ if they are looking for just fun/sex or a long term commitment/relationship, then u wouldn’t see so many fine ass women MARRIED to fat, hairy, butt-ass fugly, bald fucking losers. It’s more prevalent than ever b4, look around u some, that’s everyone’s biggest problem with making assumtions lately, they don’t look around when their in public. If you don’t have plenty of cash and equity then no hot girl will ever even consider dating you. LOVE=Support&Support=$$$. So Love=Money. Get it??? ”

You’re an idiot. Try learning pickup – I’ve seduced girls looking like crap. I don’t even have a job, albeit being a teenager, I think you still need some growing buddy.

“I am not a boy, first of all! And approching girls will not help phobias! Girls will only think that you are strange and wierd. The best thing that you can do is to breath, think about what has happened in the past, and throw the thought’s away! Talking to a doctor helps everyone also. There are medications that you can take that help all sorts of phobias too. I take medication and it helps me a lot. You also need to learn to relax in the right way! Sitting in a chair with a blanket, with smooth music on, will help a lot. Learn to do this daily and when you are in a panic attack, you need to leave where you are fast and try to relax your self. Getting enough sleep can also help phobias! When you dont get enough sleep, your mind will race like crazy. I think that I know more about these problems then anyone on this website. That is scary to think about considering I am only 13! ”

No you don’t get it… Because you’re 13. Approach Anxiety is when you are scared to approach girls. Guys get scared when they try doing this – and meeting more girls helps guys get over this. It’s not about phobias. However, getting rid of phobias can help get rid of approach anxiety because you feel more confident. And yes, listening to calming music can help you relax – but getting used to the feeling of fear will eventually make you used to it, and eventually you’ll get over it.