Comments on: Making Pickup The Priority Of Your Day http://approachanxiety.com/2006/12/making-pickup-the-priority-of-your-day/ Turn Your Fear of Approaching Women into Confidence Sat, 04 Feb 2012 15:23:27 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1.3 By: prateeksha http://approachanxiety.com/2006/12/making-pickup-the-priority-of-your-day/comment-page-1/#comment-28935 prateeksha Sun, 31 May 2009 15:01:40 +0000 http://approachanxiety.com/?p=28#comment-28935 i will read a book everyday i will read a book everyday

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]]> By: Eric a.k.a. Disco http://approachanxiety.com/2006/12/making-pickup-the-priority-of-your-day/comment-page-1/#comment-22 Eric a.k.a. Disco Wed, 07 Feb 2007 20:55:20 +0000 http://approachanxiety.com/?p=28#comment-22 Hi Gforce, 1. Try to be social with everyone. I talk to whomever I am in the elevator with, even if it's just about the weather. Banter when you buy food or coffee ("Put a little extra love in mine."). Keep practicing and you'll get good at it. 2. Give yourself a lot of leeway. If people around you are more outgoing than you, it can sometimes be daunting and make you climb even deeper into your shell. Be alpha. Make stupid comments. Try not to care. Whatever you do, don't ruminate over it and it will make you more secure in speaking up in the future. 3. Instead of memorizing a whole bunch of things to say, pick one or two banter lines and get really good at them. I like the hired/fired thing. You ask for directions and then tell her she's hired/fired as your personal assistant, depending on how well she does. Keep going with it and get good at it. "You're hired as my personal assitant, but I can't afford to put you on the payroll so I'm going to have to pay you in chocolates and massages." "You're fired as my personal assistant. You told me you could handle this job when you interviewed!" Eric a.k.a. Disco Hi Gforce,

1. Try to be social with everyone. I talk to whomever I am in the elevator with, even if it’s just about the weather. Banter when you buy food or coffee (“Put a little extra love in mine.”). Keep practicing and you’ll get good at it.

2. Give yourself a lot of leeway. If people around you are more outgoing than you, it can sometimes be daunting and make you climb even deeper into your shell. Be alpha. Make stupid comments. Try not to care. Whatever you do, don’t ruminate over it and it will make you more secure in speaking up in the future.

3. Instead of memorizing a whole bunch of things to say, pick one or two banter lines and get really good at them. I like the hired/fired thing. You ask for directions and then tell her she’s hired/fired as your personal assistant, depending on how well she does. Keep going with it and get good at it.

“You’re hired as my personal assitant, but I can’t afford to put you on the payroll so I’m going to have to pay you in chocolates and massages.”

“You’re fired as my personal assistant. You told me you could handle this job when you interviewed!”

Eric a.k.a. Disco

]]> By: gforce http://approachanxiety.com/2006/12/making-pickup-the-priority-of-your-day/comment-page-1/#comment-19 gforce Tue, 06 Feb 2007 14:17:34 +0000 http://approachanxiety.com/?p=28#comment-19 Hi Eric, I somehow can relate to your post. I'm coming from a place of scarcity (women, sex, lovelife etc) and I read and think about PU a lot. But I have a very technical IT job where I really have to concentrate at work. I have meetings, presentations etc and I don't want to appear lost in my dreams. So my mind starts working in the office mode. I start concentrating on my presentations, projects etc and often notice that the people around me are all chit chatting, laughing and teasing each other and i'm there looking at my computer screen with a serious look. After work I find it difficult to approach girls. Do you have any suggestions on how to get out of your head and start enjoying ? Gforce Hi Eric,

I somehow can relate to your post. I’m coming from a place of scarcity (women, sex, lovelife etc) and I read and think about PU a lot. But I have a very technical IT job where I really have to concentrate at work. I have meetings, presentations etc and I don’t want to appear lost in my dreams. So my mind starts working in the office mode. I start concentrating on my presentations, projects etc and often notice that the people around me are all chit chatting, laughing and teasing each other and i’m there looking at my computer screen with a serious look. After work I find it difficult to approach girls. Do you have any suggestions on how to get out of your head and start enjoying ?

Gforce

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