Nov 19th, 2005 was the first time I went out and approached women hard. Brad P. took me out on a “field mission.” I approached more women that night than I had in my entire life. I opened maybe ten sets.

For the first few months I did a lot of night game. I had a couple of one-night-stands, and a few girls I was “seeing” for a little while.

February 1st I took Art of Attraction with Pickup101.

In the spring I set my mind on day game.

When I first began approaching women during the day, it was difficult. I had a lot of anxiety, more so than at night. It seemed so much like something I was not really “supposed” to do, unlike the way people socialize at a bar.

I took Art of Rapport in April, in which I did about 40 sets in a 2-day period. It did exactly what I wanted it to do: it showed me that opening sets during the day is possible and totally cool. However, when I got back to NYC after Art of Rapport, I still had difficulty on the street opening sets.

I decided that I would do one set every day at lunch, and that’s what I did. It was difficult at first. Read the rest of this entry »

Barnes and Noble. I was done looking around for girls. I’d spent a while that day and hadn’t found much impressive. So I was going home.

Then this girl walks in. Nothing short of unbeleivable. She was a 9.5 with screaming blue eyes and a killer body.

My heart starts to race. Approach anxiety. Approach anxiety. Approach anxiety. Approach anxiety. Approach the anxiety. Approach it. Lean into the fear. It’s part of me. It is me. Accept it. All of it. Accept everything I feel.

I open her direct as possible. She smiles. I have ZERO game. There is nothing in my mind as I talk to her. I have no lines. It is not me and it is as much me as I have ever been in my life. I can’t stop smiling. She’s smiling too. But giving me nothing verbally.

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